Resources for Couples

Books & Media I recommend:

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work:
Attached:  The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find - and Keep - Love (Levine)

David Schnarch resources:
Getting the Love You Want:  A Guide for Couples (Hendrix)

​Nonviolent Communication (Rosenberg)

Esther Perel's Ted Talk:  Rethinking Infidelity

Sue Johnson (Emotion Focused Therapy):
Gottman Card Decks App:

Resources for Individuals

Therapies and Theories I use and like:

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy

Dialectical Behavior Therapy

Rogerian Therapy

Trauma Therapies:
Prolonged Exposure for PTSD
Prolonged Exposure Therapy
Narrative Therapy for Trauma
Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

Read this article to understand why I do not use or train in EMDR 

Brene Brown and Brene Brown on Vulnerability

No More Mr. Nice Guy (by Robert Glover)  - Full Text and book information

Local Resources

New Mexico Crisis Line 1 (855) NMCRISIS (662-7474)